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"Theory of Mind"


As many of you are aware I have Aspergers and I am quite happy to discuss issues and always welcome criticism and feedback but I have just been introduced to a concept called "Theory of Mind" and it is driving me insane. 

I am now at a point where my ideas and thoughts are being designed into diagrams and full essays written to describe an idea to make it easier for other people to understand the wonderful world that my brain occupies. It is a good job I have a dry sense of humour and find it easy to laugh at myself as everytime I look into it all I can do is think of the awkward situations that I have been in. There has been a lot. 

But thankfully it does make me understand that the neurotypical's of society haven't got a clue what goes on in my head and having to explain in more detail, whilst frustrating is making me and my organisation more efficient, effective and achieving a greater impact in less time that it has taken me to write this update. Geez it's hard to write about yourself.

Although I have Aspergers, I am a great believer in developing myself personally to make everyday life that little bit more comfortable and I am also one to throw myself (not literally) into awkward situations so that I can fully experience and understand what I need to do to try and fit in. Please note this will never fully happen as I enjoy with great pleasure being slightly odd, especially talking to very large groups of people about me and what I do for a living. 

But it seems to work for me and as the months pass I am gaining confidence in allowing people into my "Theory of mind" to ensure that my work carries as much punch with it as possible to help more people within my Community. Only time will tell if I have made the right decision and thankfully I have a small team around me who like to say things as is. Makes for interesting conversations that's for sure.


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